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Tom Tedesco posted a condolence
Thursday, September 20, 2007
Steve was a dear friend during high school, where he was one of nicest people one could find. Then after high school, Steve and I attended Drexel University. Steve and I actually commuted together for a couple of semesters during Freshman year. Some of my dearest thoughts were waiting for Steve and me beeping my horn in my old VW beetle in front of Steves' house!!! We continued to see each other for a couple of years at Drexel, and unfortunately lost touch after college. I will always cherish those days in High School with Steve, and those terric discussions about how to pass the next Calculus exam while in a traffic jam on the Walt Whitman Bridge! My heart and prayers go out to Steve and his family.
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Bob Rath posted a condolence
Friday, September 14, 2007
Although I have known Steve for many years, I’ve only had the privilege of working closely with him for the past few. As demonstrated by the many people attending his memorial, his circle of influence was huge. I don’t think Steve realized the amount of people he affected but I can tell you it spans from coast to coast.
One of the reasons for Steve’s popularity is he loved to teach. He took special satisfaction in helping people learn their jobs or any of the many systems or programs he had helped create. He often volunteered to teach our clients, our vendors or participate in process improvement teams all over the country, always with an eye on improving our organization and ultimately improving our quality of life.
I will remember him with a smile. Frequently injecting humor in our conversation and usually with his unique sense of irony or sarcasm. I think he enjoyed using his humor to knock us down a few pegs when we started to take ourselves too seriously, which was especially refreshing during our staff meetings.
I couldn’t call myself a “good friend” to Steve since I seldom saw him or Karen socially nor did I travel in the same circles, although he always made me feel like one. We often talked about sailing, involvement with soccer, his family, scouting, telling stories or even trading the occasional beer recipe. He frequently asked about my family, my home and how my children were doing in college. I always felt he was entrusting me with information befitting that of a “good friend”. For those of you who are Steve’s good friends, you are truly blessed.
What I will always remember and admire most about Steve is his generosity with his time. He always found time to give, whether helping a friend, helping a coworker, taking on a project or assisting in his community, he very rarely said “no”. Many if not all of us have benefited from his generosity at some time or another.
As I think about the short time we had spent together and reflect back upon our relationship, I will forever have these thoughts:
Thank you for everything you have taught me,
Thank you for all you have given me,
Thank you for always treating me like a GOOD friend.”
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Doreen Dixon posted a condolence
Friday, September 14, 2007
Steve's service was a beautiful one. It was a beutiful day as well. Steve touched so many lives whether young or old. Steve would not want us to dwell on his death but for us to remember him for the man he was. He was a kind-hearted, sincere man. He was a loving family man and friend that had a quick wit about him. Anyone who was lucky enough to have know him would say he was genuine. Not many people can say they are genuine, but he truly was. I will miss him terribly, but he will forever be in my heart.
Karen, I pray for you and your family. You are a very strong woman. You always were.
Steve, I'm going to miss you and many others will as well. I will keep memories of you alive and forever with me. You will be missed my friend. Until we meet again.
Doreen
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Amos Wieneke posted a condolence
Thursday, September 13, 2007
"Amos from Aptus". That's what Steve always called me. It was also Steve that called me after he found out that my jaunt with MEI was over and offered me a job. I will always be grateful for his friendship and trust in me. We will miss you Cowboy!
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Denise Perry posted a condolence
Thursday, September 13, 2007
I send my most heartfelt prayers to Heaven for Karen, the children and all family members and friends of Steve's. I pray for healing, good memories and courage for all. May God bless and keep, not only Steve but also his loved ones in His care always.
May peace be with all of you.
Denise Perry, former Onyxy employee at North Jackson, OH>
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The Filippone family posted a condolence
Thursday, September 13, 2007
Sam was lucky enough to be coached by Steve for the last three soccer seasons. He was deeply moved by his loss, so much so that he did not feel he could come to Steve's services. I still have Steve's e-mails and voice on my answering machine and can't erase them. You all already know what a wonderful father he was, but he was like that to the kids too. I feel so sad that my son lost such a great and positive role model, he was that for all of them. I am truly sorry and sad for your loss.
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Regina Loungo Gervasi posted a condolence
Thursday, September 13, 2007
Hi Karen. I just received the e mail regarding your husbands death. I am so sorry for your loss and wanted you and your family to know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. I live in Charlotte North Carolina and can not attend the services but wanted to you know we are thinking of you and send our deepest sympathy. Sincerely, Jerrod and Regina Gervasi and family
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Mike Bartholomew posted a condolence
Thursday, September 13, 2007
Steve was a friend and coworker who was loved and admired, a tremendous resource at work, always a quick smile, that great dry sense of humor, a doting father. He will missed more than he could imagine. He left this world a better place because of his positive influence on others.
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Tom Smolko posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
I met Steve a few years back during an Onyx meeting that included employees from all over the country. We introduced ourselves and found out we were both transferring to the Philly office around the same time. Steve said, I guess "we'll see more of each other". Boy was he right; I found he would be a trainer, a mentor and a friend! Steve was always willing to share his knowledge and take the time to work with his co-workers and friends. I will always remember Steve for his unselfishness and ability to share his untapped knowledge with others at work, but I will always remember stopping in his office to leave with a laugh and get a dose of his quick wit. Steve you will be missed immensely. My prayers and condolences go out to your family.
Smoke
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The Worrell/Hulbert Family posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We will truly miss Steve, what an amazing man the world has lost. We are lucky to have gotten the time to know Steve as an avid member of Troop 74, where he unselfishly gave his love and time over and over again, and also as a loving father to 5 of the most amazing children we have met. Karen, Brendan, Ian, Dillan, Devon and Spencer we will always be here for you if you need us. Please do not hesitate to call us. We will be there in anyway we can. With the Deepest of sympathy and Love to you all.
Tracy,Tom,Aaron,Tommy Jr, and Paige
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Lorrie (Lockbaum) Czarkowski posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Steve will always be with all of us in our thoughts. I will remember his smile. I admired the amount of time he spent with his children and how he encouraged them all (Boy Scouts, gymnastics, soccer, etc.) He was a great friend to many, especially our family. I thought what a great guy Karen has and how lucky they are to have each other. I think my dad thoroughly enjoyed talking with him about making beer and showing off the latest project he was working on. I think my sister will miss their conversations and laughs fishing and boating and just hanging out with all of you. We will all remember him fondly and remember to smile when we look at the picture hanging down the shore of all the kids. You both have raised wonderful children - what great parents you have been and Karen you will continue to be.
Karen, Brandan, Dylan, Devon, Ian and Spencer - you will all be a part of the Lockbaum/Beardsley family forever. We will be there for each of you when needed.
Cathy found this poem.
Death is Nothing at All:
Henry Scott Holland (1847-1918)
Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
I am I and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other, that we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference in your tone. Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without affect, without the trace of a shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same that it ever was. There is absolutely unbroken continuity. Why should I lie out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner.
All is well.
Love, Lorrie
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Lori (Rettew) Moran posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
I have many fond memories of Steve. We were part of a very close group of friends in high school and for a few years after...most weekends were spent playing games, especially pinochile, which we learned in Advanced Math. Sadly, we lost touch, but exchanged a few emails when he lived in Ohio. We were amazed to learn that we both had 5 kids, 4 boys and a girl, most with Irish names. I had no idea the James family moved back to NJ until I ran into Steve at the soccer fields a little less than a year ago. We chatted and I asked if he remembered being call Jim Stevens. He laughed. Then, ironically, his oldest son and my second son met at Clearview and became friends. We laughed about that coincidence, too. I can hardly believe what happened. He seemed to me to be the same pleasant person he was so many years ago. My heart is aching for his family. I just pray that God gives them the strength they need to get through this.
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Jim Bell posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Steve has been a co-worker and friend for the past 18 years. On a professional note, Steve was willing to help out wherever needed in order to get the job done. He always did it with a great attitude (sometimes a few comments) and a smile. On a personal note, my conversations with Steve included a conversation about our families (usually intiated by Steve). I will always remember him for that. Steve will be missed by all the Veolia employees throughout the country. Our thoughts and prayers to the family & friends.
Jaime, Patti & Jim
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Darek Teeters posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
The James Family – words alone cannot express my deepest sympathy for your loss. On September 9th, humanity truly suffered a tremendous set back with the passing of Steve. Over the course of the last 11 years I had the pleasure of working for and with Steve within AETS/Onyx/Veolia. I credit him with being a foundation of the provision of knowledge of which I built my career. As a result, my family and I owe him and you a debt of gratitude. He has positively touched so many people’s lives within the organization - I can only begin to imagine the many positive impacts he has made within your family, community and the like. Today and everyday, our prayers and thoughts reside with you…..The Teeters’ Family
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Eleanor Buckley posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Tammy,
I didn't know your brother, but my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time.
Eleanor
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Paul Creedon posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
I had the pleasure of working with Steve during the Onyx expansion of the Ohio Valley Branch. Steve was one smart cat and his sarcastic wit was unparalleled. He always carried himself as a conscientious family man with a solid moral and ethical foundation. He was a true professional in the workplace and could just as easily shift gears to the very personable and likable "regualr guy." One great memory I have of Steve were the crack-up comments he used to make about his yellow beater-car he drove to work in North Jackson, OH. He will be sorrily missed and my most sincere condolences go out to his family and friends.
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Karen Harris posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
As a former co-worker, I knew Steve for only a short while. But I know he was a good man, a family man. He was a proud, loving father--his face lit up when he talked of his children. Steve will be sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the James family.
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Harrison Soccer Club posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
We are all very saddened by your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with your family
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Janice Yahner posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
I’ve only known Steve a short time, but in that time I came to realize how lucky I was to have such a wonderful boss. How many people can say that? Steve was the kind of person who would go above and beyond to help anyone. He loved his family and talked about how proud he was of his kids.
I thank Steve for the many opportunities he gave me, for his advise and support and for his words of encouragement. I will miss him greatly. My thoughts and prayers are with the James family. My heart goes out to you.
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Sue Wimmer posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
I can not believe that I have know Steve for 20 years. When I started dating Rich, I became the 3rd wheel for the 3 Musketeers. One night after dating Rich for a couple of months, I started listening to Steve. You had to really pay attention to hear his quiet one liners that were hilarious. Talk about a dry sense of humor! One of the funniest times I will always remember about Steve was during my Widener days. A group of us had been partying one night and Steve was supposed to spend the night at Rich's apartment. He apparently got bored and couldn't fall asleep because the next morning the furniture in the apartment was all piled on top of each other. From the floor to the ceiling was nothing but a mound of furniture. He did leave Rich a brief note - 'Went home, Steve'. This is one of many funny, priceless 'Steve' stories that we all have and will treasure for the rest of our lives. My heart goes out to Steve's family for their loss. Karen, there is no doubt in my mind that you have the strength to continue raising your kids in the way that you and Steve have done up until this point. During those hard times in the weeks and months to come, please remember all you need to do is pick up the phone. Please don't hesitate!! The world has lost a truly wonderful man.
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Anne Daly posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Steve was the kind of guy who made you felt at ease right away, like you'd known him forever. I always enjoyed talking to him on the sidelines at soccer. He was such a good father, taking his family on trips, driving everyone to practices, competitions, games, friends' houses, and anywhere else they had to go. He will be sadly missed by all the young lives he touched, as well as those of us who only knew him briefly.
My heart goes out to you Karen. Peace.
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Jarrod Noland posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Mr. James was one of the most involved members of Troop 74. He always went out of his way to help the scouts with rides, requirements, and much more. He was also a very selfless person who always worked to make one smile and laugh with his wit and humor. Though only fortunate enough to know Mr. James for about two years through scouting, I and my grandparents were lucky to know a great man and his wonderful family. The prayers and blassings of the Noland family are with Mrs. James and the children.God Bless; Jarrod, Tim, and Marilyn Noland.
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Andres Blotta posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
He was a great coach. We will all miss him and love him greatly. I am keeping his family in my prayers. May the Lord bless them.
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Doreen Dixon posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
I don't even know where to begin. When I got the call on Monday I was in disbelief. I am still in shock. I met Steve years ago when we started work on the same day and he made little a joke about it. In time, a bunch of us would hang out together on the weekends at Murphy's, bowling and the diner (the Wimmerettes). Steve made me feel at ease the first time I went to Murphy's because I was driving from Phila and got lost. I'll never forget the camping trips every Memorial Day weekend and the infamous "walk" that everyone, myself included,but Steve complained about. He put a positive note on our negative thoughts.
As time went by we went on with our own lives, some moved to different parts of the country, some stayed in this area. I would often think about the good and bad times we had, memories that were made, and the laughter and tears we experienced.
I haven't seen Steve in years, but just recently I was going through some photo albums and came across a picture from one of our Memorial Day trips. The 12 of us were at the base of a waterfall. My son asked me about the picture and I told him it was one of the best times I had and I hoped that someday he would meet friends like that. Now weeks, later, I'm writing about a friend in the picture.
I pray for Steve, Karen and his children. They say time heals all wounds, but I don't think I have a band-aid big enough for this one.
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Jeanette Hochstuhl posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Steve was a great friend and co-worker/manager to everyone. My memory of Steve is, when I used to go and sit in the corner of his office to hide from everyone when I was having a busy day and needed a time out. We would talk about our families and I always looked at his kids pictures they made him. I'm sorry your gone and will miss you. Jeanette
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John Dear posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
I have had the pleasure to know Steve through the efforts he put into coaching the kids on the Harrison and Mantua Soccer Teams. He was always great with the kids; patient, quietly encouraging and setting an example that we all should strive to meet. I am sorry for the loss to his family and to our community. He will be missed.
My prayers go out to his family and friends.
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Joann McDonnell posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
I have worked with Steve for nineteen years. Many times I gave him a hard time concerning work issues and he always replied with a smile and we would end up laughing about it. He always asked how my family was and he would tell me about his kids and his soccer team. He will be sadly missed in our Philly office.
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Fran Kerns posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
I've worked with Steve for the past 15 years. He was always quick to get whatever problem we had solved. He always had a smile on his face and always asked how I was doing. He will truly be missed in the Philly office.
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Rick Van Gemert posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Steve...words cannot begin to say how we will misss you. We can only reflect upon how you lightened our lives with your smile, sly wit, and good nature. Remembering the great times growing up through high school and well after always brings a smile to my face!! I still tell our stories to this day to people who don't know you, but definitely know of you!! Driving around in your Chevy 'Bird, going to Murphy's for that one game of pool, hanging at my mom's house...I write this through tears now at your passing...we will truly miss a great friend, father, and compatriot. Our heart goes out to the James family and will help wherever possible. Love always, Rick, Wendy, Danny, and Tommy!!
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Ken Thomas posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
I had the pleasure of coaching with Steve over the last several soccer seasons. His dedication, patience, kindness, and skills were clearly evident in his relationships with his children and his service to our community. May his family find comfort in knowing that these fine qualities will live on in each of them, and in the lives of the people Steve touched. With deepest sympathies: Ken, Kathy, Emily, and Kenny Thomas
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Jim Tiefenthaler posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
It's not the quantity of time but the quality that counts. Over time has our lives went in separate paths, its the good memories that you count on until time reunites us. The world truly lost a good and caring person. Our thoughts and prayers are with Karen and the children.
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Rich Wimmer posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Where do I start? Steve was one of my best friends since 9th grade. We graduated Gloucester City High School together in 1983, and have remained close since. So many good times with Steve... that is what I want to remember. The times we spent hanging at Rick's Mom's house in Gloucester; the time with the pork fat; the times at Murphy's where you would eventually meet Karen; the times at Widener (Maverick !!); the times that we had with your family and my family; the countless times that we would be together and you would whisper something under your breath that no one else would hear but me that would completely break me up. Steve, the three musketeers are now down to two....We are going to miss you. My heart and support go out to Karen and children.
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CAROL (JAMES) HOJNACKI posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Dear James Family:
Karen, and children: you are all in my prayers. May the Lord send you his comfort and full all your hearts with good memories. May the Lord show you His Love and Peace thru this time in your life.
Your Cousin
Carol James - Hojnacki
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Maureen Crothall posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Steve was married to my daughter in law's sister. Living in different country's I only met him a handful of times but he, and his lovely family, made a big impression on me, such a kind, friendly, warm-hearted person. I am truly saddened by his passing and send my deepest sympathy to Karen, the children and all the family.
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Maureen Crothall posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Steve was married to my daughter in law's sister. Living in different country's I only met him a handful of times but he, and his lovely family, made a big impression on me, such a kind, friendly, warm-hearted person. I am truly saddened by his passing and send my deepest sympathy to Karen, the children and all the family.
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The Carrie Family posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Steve will always be remembered for his caring, friendly smile. He was looked up to by many, including our son who has been on his soccer team for the past three years. He was not only a coach, but a friend. We will truely miss him but never forget him.
Love,
Christine, Bert, Chris, Jonathan, and Michelle Carrie
125 Pitman Avenue
Pitman, NJ 08071
Phone: (856) 589-6308